Growing Your Mommy Blog as Your Children Grow

Growing Your Mommy Blog as Your Children Grow

Oh, how quickly things change.

One minute you are picking gum out of your daughter’s armpit, and the next minute you are helping her pick out a homecoming dress.

If you are earning an income as a mommy blogger, this change may cause you concern. It should cause you concern.

Here is why:

1. Your child’s “issues” aren’t quite so cute anymore.

Kids say the darndest things, and people like reading stories about what they say. The internet goes crazy over pictures of round-faced toddlers with crazy hair, and cute videos of toddlers often go viral.

As your child ages, their idiosyncrasies may not be as funny. Their tantrums become embarrassing, and their strange way of saying things becomes less cute and more cause for concern.

If you are earning your bread and butter from sharing these cute stories of your daily life with the rest of the world, it’s time to develop a back-up plan. Or you can have another baby.

2. Your child is going to begin to resent your blogging.

Babies, toddlers, and preschoolers may know that mommy takes a lot of photos and spends a lot of time in front of a laptop, but they are clueless as to the reasons why. Your grade-school aged kid will be much more aware of your hobby.

They will not find it amusing when a friend at church mentions an embarrassing moment that was chronicled in your blog. They will not be impressed when you receive hundreds of likes and shares on the article you wrote about bed wetting. And when your child’s friend finds a funny photo of your kid and shares it with their classmates, your child will become downright angry.

3. Blogging about your older children may be unsafe.

When your children are young, they never leave your sight. You don’t go anywhere without your kids, and your kids don’t go anywhere without an adult.

As your child ages, he or she will have more independence and freedom. This is a natural part of the aging process.

Even though most people are good, there are some creepy people who will see photos of your child online and have ill intent. You can protect your children from these icky people when they are younger, but you will have a more difficult time doing so if they are walking to and from school on their own.

While it’s understandable that mommy bloggers should quit when their children age, it really is a pity. Parenting doesn’t get easier as kids grow up, and people still need advice and reassurance. Even though parents of older kids aren’t as likely to read posts about teething or diaper rash, they would want to learn about issues that affect older kids.

You may be sad when your mommy blogging days end. The blogging community tends to be a close-knit group, and after you quit sharing the details of your day, you may feel as if you are losing a group of friends.

But there’s light at the end of the tunnel. You can take the skills you learned blogging to earn a few extra bucks each month.

1. Change the focus of your blogs.

Perhaps your child is a figure skater or a golfer. Maybe your daughter shows horses. Chances are you have learned a lot about these sports as your child has advanced in skill. You probably have also learned a lot about the expensive equipment that accompanies these pastimes.

Write a blog about being a figure-skater mom. You don’t have to include specific information about your child. In fact, you can protect his or her privacy as much as you like. Other parents will still want to read your stories and advice if they also have a child who participates in those sports.

You can also use your influence and knowledge to create an affiliate marketing program. Write reviews on the best type of bedazzler. Write about where to buy golf clubs for your growing child. Create affiliate links to sell products through your website.

2. Guest write on someone else’s blog.

If you have developed your writing skills through your time as a blogger, you can utilize those skills and find freelance work on mom-focused websites. There are tons of jobs posted on Upwork that are seeking short articles. They don’t pay well, but they will at least keep you active within that community.

3. Assist others with starting a mommy blog.

If you gained popularity as a mommy blogger, you could teach others how you did it. Evaluating and editing someone else’s work may not seem as satisfying as writing your own copy, but you can at least feel good that you are sharing your knowledge and expertise with another mom.

This article is originally posted at Mom Marketing Coach!

How to Handle Negative Comments on your Mommy Blog

How to Handle Negative Comments on your Mommy Blog

One negative aspect of writing about your life for all to see is that every once in a while, you will receive comments from strangers (or friends) that will annoy, contradict, or degrade you. The internet did not create negativity. It’s just a new medium that people use to spew their hatred.

One would think that most of the time, negative comments come from political or religious posts. For some reason, parenting brings out the nasty side of people as well.

The problem is that everyone thinks they know the right way to parent. 

Other parents will think you are too strict with your kids, and others will say you are too lenient.

If you work outside the home, the stay-at-home moms will judge you. If you stay at home with your kids, the working moms will mock you.

People will blast you for overscheduling your kids, sending them to public schools, or allowing them to watch inappropriate content on TV.

Others will label you as a helicopter parent, a lawnmower parent, as being too involved, or not concerned enough.

And God helps you if you write about anti-vaccines, homeschooling, and co-sleeping. You’re just asking for trouble with those topics.

What do you do when you receive negative comments? You only have a few options. Let’s discuss them.

Delete (or Edit) Negative Comments

You could consider deleted or editing the negative comments that someone leaves on your blog. Immediately use this tactic if someone writes something perverted or inappropriate about you or someone in your family. Don’t forget to block them from making additional comments as well. 

Respond to the Comments

Your knee-jerk reaction may be to fight fire with fire. If someone calls you a name, you may want to revert to your 11-year-old-self and name call as well. Honestly, it could be kind of funny if you respond with a, “oh yeah? So’s your mother!” You could diffuse the situation by bringing humor to it. This type of reaction is especially fitting if that is the personality you portray on your blog.

Perhaps you should consider responding with a thoughtful explanation of why you disagree with your readers’ opinion. You have created a public forum with your blog. Are you afraid of exchanging ideas? Maybe blogging isn’t for you then. If you want constant public affirmations, perhaps you should post your content on Facebook to an intimate group of family and friends. 

Ignore

Sometimes ignoring is the same as responding. Sometimes people’s comments are so inane and poorly written, that calling them out on it would just be cruel. 

Mommy bloggers are a tight-knit group. Perhaps your friends will respond for you if you ignore the Debbie Downer. It’s fantastic to see who has your back in your time of need.

That’s it! Those are the three things you can do if you receive criticism regarding something you wrote. You can delete, ignore, or respond. 

Here’s an idea that may blow your mind: maybe you shouldn’t discourage negative comments. Here are some reasons why.

Perhaps your reader is right. 

No one wants to admit this, but maybe you used faulty logic when expressing your opinion. Perhaps the studies that you referred to were outdated, or the information that you presented as “fact” is untrue. 

Maybe you did over-share your family’s problems in the quest to be completely transparent in your blog. If someone calls you out on this, perhaps they are right. Granted, some of your readers may not present their ideas with tact and consideration. 

Perhaps your reader is trying to help.

Another thing to consider is that some people can’t listen to any complaint or comment without offering advice. They may not even think they are inconsiderate or rude. They may feel as if they are helpful in trying to fix your problem.

Yea! You have readers who care enough to comment!

Finally, perhaps receiving comments, negative or positive, are signs you have made it as a professional blogger. After all, you want people to read your blog, right? If your comments are turned on, that means you are promoting a public forum. Honestly, I’ve never understood bloggers who are aghast when readers disagree with their viewpoints. What did you think blogging was going to be?

Think hard if you are considering starting a blog to earn extra income. Are you able to handle a back-and-forth discussion with someone who contradicts or disagrees with your ideas? Are you going to be able to handle someone offering criticism on how you parent? Will receiving tons of unasked for advice drive you crazy? I hate to break it to you, but if you answered, “yes” to those questions, then maybe blogging isn’t for you.

This article was originally posted at Mom Marketing Coach!

Our Easy Guide on Getting Started with WordPress

Our Easy Guide on Getting Started with WordPress

You have thoughts to share and products to recommend or to sell, but you may not have the technical knowledge on how to start a mommy blog. Perhaps that’s what is keeping you from taking that first step. 

Don’t let your lack of knowledge keep you from sharing your ideas with the world. Let us help you walk through the process of creating your online space.  

While this article is focused on WordPress, know that you have options. WordPress is extremely popular, and millions of users have created blogs, business websites, eCommerce sites, portfolios, and resumes using WordPress. In fact, some studies say that WordPress powers over 34% of websites. But you can also start your website using the uniquely-named Wix, Weebly, and Jimdo. WordPress has plenty of competition.

Once you begin looking into WordPress, you will notice that there seem to be two versions. One is WordPress.com, and the other is WordPress.org. Without getting too deep into the reasons why, you should use WordPress.org if you plan to do affiliate marketing on your site. 

1. Purchase hosting 

Before jumping into WordPress.org and creating your site, you need to take care of a small piece of technical housekeeping. You first need to purchase a hosting platform for your website.

Every website that you look at throughout your day has a host that “powers” it. Without a host, no one will be able to see your content. It’s kind of important. 

WordPress recommends hosting platforms on its website, such as Bluehost, DreamHost, and SiteGround. Each hosting site has a variety of packages available in different price points, but some start as low as $3 a month. You can’t purchase hosting and your domain name through WordPress.org.

We know this process sounds intimidating, but these hosting companies make the process as painless as possible. Once you pick which package is best for you, you will be asked if you have a domain name or not. This is the next step in the process of creating your mommy blog. 

2. Purchase a domain name

Your domain name is your website’s address, such as https://www.mommarketingcoach.com.

You can purchase your domain through a variety of methods, but since you are reading this step-by-step guide, and technology may not be your “thing,” we would recommend that you purchase your domain name from your hosting company. For example, Bluehost makes it incredibly simple. 

Bluehost charges a small fee to help you obtain your domain name, but this domain is yours for however many years you choose. You won’t have to change your website name if you decide to switch hosting platforms at a later date. You will be able to take your website’s name with you.

3. Install WordPress

You can install WordPress on your own. It’s free. If you choose to use Bluehost as your hosting company, you can easily install the software from their website as well. 

Bluehost will walk you through the process of installing WordPress, but if you miss it, log into Bluehost and click the Create Site button. 

3. Create your content

Once you have a hosting site and a domain name, you are ready to create your content using WordPress. 

WordPress will walk you through the process of creating your first blog post. From the WordPress dashboard, click on the “Posts” link and then choose “Add New.” To write your text, you literally need to click and type. You can add images and videos using their rather intuitive system.

4. Seek help when you need it

One benefit of using WordPress is that you will have no trouble finding help when you need it. Search for YouTube videos to walk you through the process or help you when you get stuck. 

If you are frustrated with the process, or you are concerned that your lack of expertise will make your website look childish, you may consider hiring a freelancer to manage your site. 

5. Promote your website

Once you have gone to the trouble to create your website, it is time to learn how to promote it or to create content that allows people to find it easily. Promoting your website is the subject for another series of articles (or books). Remember that this is a necessary step in the process. Don’t feel as if you will immediately receive likes, shares, or comments on your work. It’s a long journey.

Hopefully, this is enough information to get you started on creating a blog using WordPress. While there are many other methods and software available to share your content with the world, this guide was meant to offer the most straightforward, fastest way to get started. Good luck!  

This article was originally posted at Mom marketing Coach.

How to Introduce Affiliate Marketing in Your Mommy Blog

How to Introduce Affiliate Marketing in Your Mommy Blog

Affiliate Marketing in Your Mommy Blog

Perhaps you have been blogging for a while and have been lucky enough to earn a loyal following. Congratulations to you! It’s tough to get noticed in this competitive field. 

While you care about your audience and the message of your blog, you need to earn a more significant income. Kids aren’t cheap, and as they age their clothes, toys, and activities become more expensive. Plus, nine-year-old boys eat like a horse. 

It’s only natural that you would try to earn more money from your blogging habit by signing up for affiliate marketing programs. 

Here are some simple steps to get started: 

Step 1 – Choose Your Niche

Since you are visiting our website, I’m going to take a wild guess that your blog is somewhat “kid” related. When it comes to choosing affiliate marketing programs, you may want to narrow your scope a bit.

Perhaps you are a dance or ice-skating mom. You probably have spent hours bedazzling costumes, and you know all the best tools and tricks for maneuvering through that world. Capitalize on this knowledge. Maybe your blog can offer suggestions on the best reading glasses to purchase now that you have ruined your eyes from too much bedazzling.

Maybe your child has struggled as a reader, but you have found resources and strategies that you would like to recommend to parents going through similar issues. Why not make money from your recommendations?

Do you have the girliest girl who loves to dress in boutique-style clothes? If you are raising a model-in-the-making, why not make some extra cash along the way by offering an affiliate marketing program that focuses on kid fashion?

If you have been writing for a while, you probably already have a niche. It’s time to capitalize on that knowledge by sharing your favorite products and services with others.

Step 2 – Form Opinions

Your savvy readers will smell a rat from a mile away. They will be able to tell whether you are a genuine user and fan of a product, or if you are just saying you are to make some extra money. Find products that you really do use and enjoy.

Marketing experts know that this kind of publicity works to sell a product. In fact, millennials are more likely to trust the opinions of someone they view as a peer instead of any other form of traditional advertising. 

Make a list of all the products and service you interact with that relate to your niche. Feel free to play with topics that are not directly related but are loosely connected.

For example, maybe your child’s dance team habit means that you travel to competitions around the country. Expand the scope of your affiliate marketing campaigns, so you write about dance-related travel. 

Step 3 – Sign up for the Amazon Affiliate Marketing Program

Sure, there are other affiliate marketing programs out there, but since you use amazon, and your readers already use Amazon, why not start there?

Another benefit of using Amazon is that you can find any product imaginable on their website.

It’s an easy process. Here are the basic requirements.

If you are starting an affiliate marketing program on your website, you must own your own website. The content must be recent or no more than 60 days old. There must be at least ten posts, and the site must be live and viewable by the general public. 

You can also run an affiliate marketing program through Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, and Twitch.TV groups. Your social network account must be already established with at least 500 members. It, too, must be publicly available.

Once you have signed up, you need to have at least three sales within the first 180 days. You can’t make the sales on your own; they have to be from a third-party source.

Finally, you need to comply with Amazon’s extensive list of rules and regs. It’s Amazon, so they take their practices seriously. Here’s the complete list. Some of the regulations are written in shouty-voiced ALL CAPS, so you know they mean business.

One of the most important things to remember is that you need to identify yourself as an Amazon associate by using these words:  “As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.” You cannot offer anyone a reward or incentive for using your links. You can’t say that proceeds from particular orders will go to a charity or non-profit organization. 

Step 4 – Continue Producing Content

You need to be prepared before you sign up to become an Amazon associate. Amazon has high expectations that you will start driving sales within the first five months, so you really need to have your ducks in a row before you apply.

Good luck in expanding your mommy blog. Remember to stay true to your message, and your readers will follow.

5 Tips on How to Write Blogs that People Want to Read

5 Tips on How to Write Blogs that People Want to Read

Wow. This is a stressful writing assignment.

If you don’t finish reading this article about how to write blogs that people want to read, will I have done my job?

While I might not be an expert writer, I do read. A lot. Here are things that I have noticed that draw me into other people’s blogs, posts, and personal essays.

1. Use Eye-Catching Images

Sorry, all you writers out there who spend hours crafting your words, so you can share profound, insightful thoughts. If your blog doesn’t have some sort of eye-catching image to draw you in, you may have a difficult time bringing readers to your post.

Learn how to improve your photography skills. Use free stock images if you are desperate. (You can find free photos at pixabay.com.) 

Personally, I’m drawn to photos of people showing a lot of emotion. Or pictures of dogs. Even people who aren’t necessarily animal lovers like looking at pictures of dogs. 

2. Use Quirky Subheadings

Recently, I was drawn to someone’s post about signs of aging. The first subheading was titled “Birds.” The next was “Ferris Bueller.”  You know you’re going to read anyone’s writing who can connect those two topics in one piece.

Subheadings also break up huge blocks of text, so the piece looks readable. While the greatest writers in the world, such as Charles Dickens, didn’t follow this practice, Dickens wasn’t writing for average internet reader. The average internet reader scans articles while waiting in line at Target or sitting on the toilet.

3. Tell Stories About Your Daughter Waking Up with Chewing Gum in Her Armpit

You’ve started mommy blogs before that are written with beautiful, flowery language full of generalities. Many times these posts are oozing with feelings and emotions about how being a mommy has been such a life-changing experience.

Maybe it’s just me, but as soon as I begin reading this kind of writing, my eyes glaze over, and I start scrolling. The only thing worse is having a seventh-grade girl ask you to read her book of poetry.

Start by telling a story, and then you can go into the feelings associated with the account.

For example, start your blog post about how your toddler woke up from her nap with a huge wad of chewing gum underneath her armpit. Then, go into your piece about the joys of motherhood. 

Hopefully, you will have remembered to take a photo of the wad of gum. That image will undoubtedly bring in plenty of readers.

4. Lead With the Monster Attack

One of the first things you learn in journalism school is how to write a good lead. Professors teach baby writers to not “bury the lead.” Here’s an example. 

If a monster is attacking people on the beaches in Florida, you don’t start your news article by writing, “On Tuesday, 56-year-old Herman Giuseppe lost his arm while on vacation in the Florida Keys.”

If you are writing a blog post about your child getting chickenpox, even though they were immunized against it, you will get more readers if you lead with that information instead of starting with a lot of background information.

Lead with the monster attack, and then tell the rest of the story.

5. Awaken Your Inner Teacher

We have all turned to the internet to learn how to do something. My recent Google searches include “how to paint your kitchen cabinets,” “how to get knock-out roses to bloom,” and “how to get a wad of chewing gum out of a toddler’s armpit.”

Even if your instructions are more tongue-in-cheek in nature, people are drawn to online “how-to” guides.

If you are writing a Mommy Blog, write how you were able to get your child to sleep through the night. Write how you were finally able to get your kids from dropping all their crap on the floor of the entryway. Write about how you were finally able to get your sixth-grade son to hug you every day before walking out the door. This is the kind of information Moms need to have to improve their daily lives. 

As you sit down to write your blog, think back to what your seventh-grade English teacher taught you. Before you write, you need to know your purpose for writing. If your goal every day is writing about how perfect your life is now that you have raised the most amazing children in the world, you may struggle to keep readers.

This article was originally posted at Mom Marketing Coach.

The Importance of Authenticity When Writing a Mommy Blog

The Importance of Authenticity When Writing a Mommy Blog

I didn’t grow up in the South, and neither did my Mom. But every time I hear Miranda Lambert’s drawl mimic her mama’s advice to “hide your crazy,” I always think of my own Mom.

My Mom was the queen of stoicism, a trait that I honestly admire and tried to mimic most of my life. My Mom always put people at ease with her calm voice and absence of outbursts. I grew up with zero stress because my Mom wasn’t one to complain or express dissatisfaction. This doesn’t mean that Mom didn’t have hardships or difficulties. She just didn’t feel that it was very lady-like to share them.

While my Mom had plenty of friends and lived a perfectly comfortable life, she wasn’t the first person people turned to for a good story. She wasn’t the life of the party, and she wasn’t one who you felt you could pour your heart out to unless you knew her well. Because of this, my Mom would have been a lousy blogger. She wouldn’t have shared enough. She wouldn’t have been authentic enough.

To have a successful mommy blog, you have to have readers. To keep readers, you have to offer value to your content by telling a good story or giving good advice. And you need to be authentic. Here’s how to show authenticity in your writing.

Tell It Like It Is

One of my favorite mommy bloggers is the queen of honesty. She writes about how exhausted she was after entertaining her three kids for almost an hour in the doctor’s examination room. She stops and takes a quick photo of her youngest, who is screaming on the floor at Target because she didn’t like how her socks felt on her feet. 

Of course, you wouldn’t want to read about this chaos every day, and people might start to judge you if all your photos depict red-faced kids throwing fits. But reading about this blogger’s issues may make someone feel a little better about your three-year-old threatening to throw away your phone, makeup, and a coffee mug because you didn’t peel her banana right. Reading about how a blogger’s toddler woke up with a wad of gum stuck under her armpit might make you feel better when you just caught your little darling washing her hair in the toilet.

Try to Write Like You Talk

Some bloggers get so caught up by trying to depict a perfect life that their writing style suffers. They begin to sound like anal-retentive English teachers instead of regular moms who are just trying to get through their day.

If your tone is more formal and less conversational, try telling someone else what you want to write about in your blog before you sit down to write it. Sometimes writers start off loose and easy, but after a series of edits, their writing ends up being too stuffy and impersonal. 

Quit editing so much. You’re not writing for the New York Times. No one expects your writing to be perfect, and no one cares if it is. If you live your life peppered with four-letter-words, use them in your writing. 

If you are really ticked off with your husband because he threatens the kids with ridiculous punishments that he can never follow through on so the kids lose respect for you and start acting like a bunch of barbarians, don’t worry if you just wrote the longest-run-on sentence ever. Get it out, girl.

Get Off Your High Horse

I’m an eye-roller. I always have been. My Mom used to tell me that if I got hit on the back of my head during an eye roll, my eyes would stay that way. It’s a bad habit, so since I’m a grownup, I try to limit my eye rolls to times when no one is looking, or else I do an “inner” eye roll, which only I know about.

When I read Mom blogs of women who LOVE their kids SOOO much and have the PERFECT spouse who takes her on OMG – a SURPRISE weekend to wine country, I have to be careful not to hit the back of my head.

Where I grew up, people who talked like that were said to be on a “high horse,” which is kind of a funny expression when you think about it. 

Not only are you making the rest of us feel bad about our unglamorous lives, but you are also losing readers too. 

So, forget about hiding your crazy. Let it all out. Your readers will thank you for it. 

This article was originally posted to Mom Marketing Coach

Planning Your Day as a Mom Blogger

Planning Your Day as a Mom Blogger

Writing a blog post feels like solving a maze. You wouldn’t want to begin, knowing that you’re going to fail one way or another, probably over and over, until you reach the finish line.

But just like a maze, you have to start if you want to get it done! So today, let us help you plan your day as you write a blog post.

#1 Plan your day… realistically

For your own sake, don’t shoot for the stars, hoping that you will land on the moon. That’s not the best advice to take when you’re planning to write a blog.

You have to be more realistic because your responsibilities as a mother are in line if you don’t check what you need to do for the day. Carefully plan the non-negotiables of your day, like breastfeeding, preparing your toddler’s food, reading her a story before tucking her to bed, and so on.

Check this to-do list first, then set realistic goals for your mom blog. Don’t rush too much if you can’t finish a post the whole day. Based on experience, quality comes before quantity in your journey of mom blogging.

#2 Who are you trying to help?

Audience-targeting is usually done before you even buy a domain. This is on the upper part of the to-do list when you decide to start a mom blog.

Once you have a target audience, every post should be in service of them. But just in case you are targeting a different audience for this specific blog post or you haven’t really decided on your target audience, it will be best to do audience-targeting before you write a blog post.

#3 Check your previous posts

Our #4 step is about deciding on the topic to write. This is one of the most difficult parts in writing a blog post, so we advise that before you Google for something to write, check your previous posts first. You may have slightly discussed a topic before and you’d want to elaborate on that.

This is a good way to select a topic for two reasons:

  • First, you probably have a little bit of knowledge on this topic.
  • Second, this will help you create internal links between your blog posts. Internal linking is one of the powerful tools in SEO.

#4 Decide on a specific topic

If you didn’t find anything on your previous post, you can effectively choose a topic by thinking of your target audience.

How can you help them today in your post? What is something about your niche that you have struggled to figure out before and now you know completely and you think will be of great help to them? What is something trending in your niche that you want to express your opinion about?

Once you’ve decided on the topic, try to scale it down to something more specific, then create a working title out of it.

#5 Decide the type of post to write

Now that you have a topic, it’s time to make it easily readable for your audience. Here are the types of posts that you can choose from:

  • How-to post – something like this blog post. It talks about the steps on how to achieve something. This is perfect if you’re teaching your readers the methodological process of how to get from where they are to where they want to be.  
  • News post –  this is a more formal and more stiff kind of writing that often involves quoting facts and statements from others. This is more fitting if you’re writing about an update in your niche.

#6 How will you end it?

There’s beautiful advice from Malcolm Gladwell, the writer of the worldwide-acclaimed book, The Tipping Point. He said the best way to start writing is to know how you’ll end. He says, when you know the ending of what you’re writing, everything else will be so easy.

That’s actually an excellent point! One challenge in writing is that you can get lost in the middle. But if you have an ending to your blog post, you’ll have a guide to the finish line.

#7 Write for yourself

Start with a draft. Dump all the things you know – your research,  your opinions, more research while you’re writing, everything! Write down every single thing in your head as if you’re the one who will read your post.

#8 Write for your audience

I really believe that the first phase of editing is refining your work to suit your audience. In step #7, you wrote as if you’re the one who will read it. This will allow you to freely express yourself.

But in the end, you know that you’re really writing for your audience, right? So rephrase your sentences, add some more words and sentences to explain your point, then deduct the unnecessary. This first phase of editing should be the part where you make your blog post easiest to understand for your audience.

#9 Edit and Proofread

In writing, the more you edit, the better your blog post becomes. Edit and proofread as much as you want.

Check your grammar. Refine your words and sentences more. Read the post over and over until you can say that this is something worth reading.

#10 Season your post with pictures

Lastly, help your post become more interesting by adding interesting photos that will illustrate the words you’re writing.

Photos will surely take away the boredom of reading. After all, you don’t have to take your own photos. There are lots of websites out there giving out free photos like Unsplash and Pixabay. And mind you, they’re not your average images, but photos taken by professional photographers! If you’ll be kinder enough, credit these photographers in your mom blog too.

In the ’90s when people started blogging, they were just writing their ideas almost without a filter. Those days, blogging used to be more personal – an outlet for those who wanted to share their feelings and experiences.

I don’t see any reason why mom bloggers should do blogging differently. Don’t be too conscious to the point that your consciousness will stop you from starting a blog post. After all, your readers may have 0% knowledge about the topic you’re sharing. Keep these readers in mind and forget about your fear of getting negative comments.

This article was originally posted at Mom Marketing Coach

How to Look Like a Pro Mom Blogger When You’re New

How to Look Like a Pro Mom Blogger When You’re New

Congratulations on your decision to start a mom blog!

Just like all pursuits in life, you’ll not get it perfectly the first time and that’s okay! As the cliche goes, everything worth doing is worth doing poorly at first.

Of course, there are exceptions, but what I’m saying is that you don’t need to be disheartened as you bump into the gutters of the learning curve in this mom blogging journey.

And unlike ten years back, today, you can tap so many resources online every time you feel lost while you’re blogging. You have Wikipedia as the main source of legit information about anything. You have Google News to check for the latest updates on more serious matters. And you have, of course, Google itself to search for literally everything under the sun.

Just in case you get too overwhelmed, here are a few tips on how to look like a pro mom blogger even on your first week of blogging.

Start with the name

The success of your blog starts with the name you’re going to choose. It has to catch the attention of your target audience and showcase the identity of your blog. Keep in mind that the shorter your name is, the easier it is to recall. Come up with a name that contains all of these elements and you’ll surely have a winner in no time.

Find your passion

The passion you feel for a goal or a field of interest you want to pursue is the fuel you’ll need to keep going. It’s crucial to discover what you’re passionate about and focus on learning everything about the matter at hand. It can be something simple, like writing poetry, or something as complex as building cars.

No matter what you’re passion may be, you need to go out into the world and find it. Otherwise, you’ll be tossed in the wind by any trend or fad that comes along your way. Create social media accounts too and add awesome content on your Facebook, Instagram, and other social media accounts.

Find out your strengths

Have you found your passion? If you have, it’s time to identify your strengths and capitalize on them.  You need to find out what you’re good at so you can know how to focus your passion. At the same time, you also need to learn the areas where you’re weak. Knowing these things will help you improve and take your blog to the next level.

Keep learning

Now comes the exciting part – learning. Most people balk at the idea of learning new things but you shouldn’t. It’s a key element to your blog’s success. You need to read every significant article about your specific field of interest and watch every tutorial video that comes along with it.

You might also be interested in attending workshops or speaking to those who have been doing your passion for the longest time. Just keep yourself humble and hungry for the idea of learning and you’ll definitely go far with your blog.

Do interviews

Speaking of connecting with the right people, it’s also vital to interview them once in a while. You’re going to gain several benefits in achieving this goal.

First off, you get to learn from these people and the experience they have gained over the years. Second, you get the chance to practice your communication skills, both in speaking and writing.

Last, but definitely not the least, you get to have awesome content for your blog. Do these interviews on a regular basis, add some amazing photos, and your blog’s online presence and reputation will exceed your expectations. As you do that, keep in mind these 5 key elements in of a great blog post.

Be authentic

No one wants to read and follow a blog that doesn’t show any personality. People are attracted to authenticity and allergic to anything fake. Make it a point to connect to your target audience with utmost sincerity.

Try to learn the culture and find out what drives them in this life. Soon enough, your posts will connect to these people by adding value to their lives. The key point here is to always bring that personal touch to your blog.

Things like responding to comments, writing in an easy-to-understand style, and showing a bit of your daily routine will go a long way in connecting to the crowd.

This article was originally posted to Mom Marketing Coach

Seven Interesting Reasons Why Every Mom Should Have a Blog

Seven Interesting Reasons Why Every Mom Should Have a Blog

These days when opening your laptop is like going outdoors and meeting tons of people, you don’t really need to be away from home to reach out to the world. Communicating with your friends and family and with people whom you share the same interests with can be done within the confines of your home. That in itself is a lot of fun!

Gone are the days when women with children seem to be locked inside the toxic world of motherhood, without anything else to do but to take care of their children. Now, you can do so much more, learn so many things, and connect to the world even when you’re a stay-at-home mom. But a lot of moms like me have discovered that there’s a way to use that global access for something more productive. That’s by having your own mom blog!

You may be hearing this ‘mom blogging’ for the first time. In that case, you might want to read our earlier post about how to start a mom blog. And if you decide to push through with this journey, you’ll be one of the thousands to millions of moms out there who took this path and hopefully, you’ll love it too.

As for me, these are the reasons why I find mom blogging very helpful for all the mommies out there.

It’s fun.

When all you do for the rest of the day is to change nappies, cook meals for your kids, play with them until they get tired, and take a peek on social media when they’re too tired to play, you’ll surely find mom blogging sooo fun!

Imagine sharing your ideas to the whole world for free and exchanging thoughts with those who have the same experience as yours. You can share the ups and downs of being a mother. You can tell your fellow moms about the hacks on how to make a mom’s life easier.  Above all, you can be yourself and share your passion to tons of people without having to leave the house. Isn’t that fun?

You can earn from it.

In case you don’t know it yet, a lot of mom bloggers out there are earning millions of dollars by sharing their true selves to the world through their blog sites. If other blogs can be monetized, you can moneytize your mom blog too! Not that we’re saying you should do mom blogging for this sole reason, but if you can earn while having fun, why not?

You can destress through it.

Moms understand that our journey involves a lot of inner battles. Our daily environment may be filled with children’s laughter and silliness, but there are private moments when you just want to give up. It’s during these stressful times that mom blogging can help you.

Instead of keeping everything inside, you can share your thoughts and feelings through your mom blog. It could be a personal journal of your struggles and victories as a mom. This will help you de-stress. Plus, you might get some insights and tips from moms like you on how to handle what you’re going through.

You will learn from it.

As you do mom blogging, you will realize that this journey requires learning new things. In fact, writing posts in your blog will lead you to the routine of researching. If you’re not the type of mom who reads a lot, don’t panic! Doing online research for your blog is not as boring as it sounds.

If you’re writing about what you love, like pop culture or the Marvel Universe for example, then reading about it will never bore you. It won’t feel like working at all. What’s great about blogging is that your knowledge base will only grow as you write more.

You will know yourself better.

Speaking of more, another good thing about mom blogging is that you will discover more about yourself. As you brainstorm content for your mom blog, you will find out more about your interests – what topics are dearest to you, what things you want to learn more about, and which ones you write the best about. You’ll discover new passions and pursuits. Your journey to self-discovery will grow deeper as your horizons expand in the world of blogging.

It will help you become a better mom.

When you know yourself so well and you continue to discover new things while mom blogging, you’ll also have more things to share with your children. When you have a passion that keeps you going every day, you’ll be happier and more content. You will have an outlet when you’re too stressed and you’ll have a sense of purpose. As you become a better person, your children will be the biggest beneficiary.

You should contribute to the mom community.

Since I’ve been mom blogging for years, I see it now as a responsibility to the mom community. We know that being a mother is not easy and if you have the chance to make it less burdensome for another mom, wouldn’t you do it? I would. What can stop us when we have free access to the internet and there are websites that offer blog domains for free?

You can help other moms out there by sharing what you know through mom blogging or by simply being an inspiration to all of us that a mother can have a meaningful life apart from rearing her children.  

This article was originally posted at Mom Marketing Coach

Five Content Ideas for your Mom Blog’s Social Media

Five Content Ideas for your Mom Blog’s Social Media

Mom Blog’s Five Content Ideas

Social media marketing has been one of the most effective strategies in introducing a brand. It’s also a proven tool to sustain a good reputation.

The question is, have you been using social media to boost your business presence? And if you are, are you using it the right way?

These are the questions that we plan to address in this post. If you’re encountering problems like not knowing how to start in marketing your online shop or mom blog through social media or running out of content to share, you’ve come to the right place.

What we’d like to share with you first is that you can’t post just about anything in your online shop or mom blog’s social media accounts. But you cannot be too careful either that you tend not to post anything at all.

For us, the perfect balance lies in the diversity and sufficiency of content that you share in these accounts. Here are some content ideas that will help keep your social media presence consistent.

Blog Posts

Obviously, if you’re a mom blogger with your own blog site, you should publish these blog posts to your social media accounts. If you write once, twice, or even more frequently in a week, then you should have more content to post in your social media accounts.

Even online shops should have a blog page in their website where posts can be published. This is where your ideas, tips, explanations, and elaboration about your products and services can be written.

Quick notes on publishing blog posts to social media:

  • Always upload an attractive featured image that goes with the link to your blog post
  • Make a very short description as the caption for the link post
  • Instagram doesn’t show a clickable link so you might want to shorten the URL of your post by using third-party apps or programs like Rebrandly
  • Better to have a uniform caption across all social media accounts for consistency

Your Own Photos

Photos are eye candies. This has been proven by the popularity of Instagram as a photo-sharing site. People love sharing and looking at photos whatever those photos may be so make sure you show yours.

If you’re selling products from your online shop, share photos of them on some days when you don’t have any new blog post to share. If yours is a mom blog site, share a photo related to your niche and write a catchy caption for it.

Graphic Design

As we said earlier, the content of your social media accounts should be diverse. Aside from purely single photos or collage of photos, post graphics on some days too. This kind of content is more catchy than pure texts and it’s effective in delivering a message at one glance. It could be a graphic design of your promo for the month or an infographic explaining something on your niche.

If your mom blog is about parenting, you might want to share a creative infographic showing a day in a businesswoman-mom’s life. If you’re selling healthy baby products in your online shop, you might want to share graphics showing the advantages of those products. Extend your imagination and go as creative as you can. You have so much time to do that with 7 posts a week, one each day, or more!

Website Pages

Still not enough graphics, photos, and blog posts to share? Then post a link of your website pages to your social media accounts.

Publish a link post of your About page and write a very short summary of it as the caption. Share your Reviews page so your audience can see how trustworthy you are. You can also share links to your Service pages to tell everyone what you can do for them.

Use these website pages to introduce yourself, your products, and your services to your audience little by little.

External Sources

Now, we’re going offsite. You can make your social media posts highly diverse by sharing something interesting from another website every once in a while.

For example, if there’s a latest global news that everyone is talking about, share a link from a news site to your page and put a caption that people can relate to. The same strategy applies when there’s a local news in your country that’s worth sharing.

Some other external sources that you can publish in your social media accounts are links, videos, and photos about trending online topics. They will easily catch the attention of your audience so expect to reap thumbs ups and hearts when you post them!

Last Piece of Advice

Consistency is the name of the game in social media marketing. You cannot stop because you don’t have a content to post. Instead, you should keep looking for content so you’ll have something to share with your audience. This is how you start building and maintaining a strong presence in this marketing arena.

This article was originally posted Mom Marketing Coach

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